3 December 2008, 6:35 pm
Way back when i was little about 3 or so, my mom went through depression after me and my twin brother were born. She had to leave and go to a rehab or whatever, leaving my dad to care for me and my twin brother and my older sister. I never seen her much after that until i was around 10 or so i visited her every so often. Ever since she went to rehab she met the wrong people and got into serious drug promblems, she didnt even belong in that rehab, but my dad has always had issues with her and all, but ignored her and tryed to get over her. Around when my mother left when i was 3, my dad also found my current stepmom on the internet. they have been together ever since. i am 15 now and turnin 16. We have always gotten along ever since i was little until i started understanding her and realizes she is just hiding who she really is. this was around 13 or so .. Everyday it justs gets worse and worse with her, it seems like our fighting will never end. not to mention i also have a stepsister and stepbrother my stepsister is around the same age as me and my step brother is 18 but left us at around 16 or so because he hated my stepmom which is his mom, to go and live with his real dad. My stepmom constantly favors my stepsister and helps her out with everything and treats her like gold while she nags and complains and yells and puts me, my brother , and my sister down. my sister is now 18 and is in college but when she was living with us my sstepmom would treat her the worst, she would treat her so badly and blame everything on her and talk so nasty about her only cause she was just jealous of her because she is so sucessful and pretty and my stepmom isn't. My dad would never get involved or do a thing about it, he would just take my stepmoms side and thats it. It would get to the point where my sister would just cry and cry and have such bad self esteem and always seemed depressed and just sit in her room, but now that she is away at college and free from her she is happier than ever i noticed with a boyfriend and all. But with my twin brother lucky for him, he doesnt fight as much with her, its kind of funny becuase he just straight up ignores everything she says and walks away. I wish i could do that, but she just always gets to me in the littlest ways, and i can't help but fight back. today she freaked out about a tissue being next to my trashcan upstairs. All she does is search for little things that are wrong in the house like food left out or drinks or crumbs or serioously anything like i cant even use certain freakin mugs like really its just a mug. and she always wastes her time to look for stuff just so she can yell at me when i come home to clean it up and she doesnt even bother to help out alittle and clean it up and ignore it. My stepsister gets away with murder from my stepmom, she always puts her first and praises her with every little thing she does like ooo she got an A on her test and ooo she is such a good driver(practicing for license) and ooo she is soo good at softball at the dinner table. And makes us look like crap to our dad. I am seriously fed up with her, she is so snotty, stubborn, and stuck up ,she is crazy all she cares about is her self and its so sad, i feel so so bad for my dad. becuase he does not realize she is just using his money. EVERYDAY she wants a new everything, a new kitchen, a new patio or porch, a new living room, new furniture, new clothes, and she just got a new freakin car and my dad is forced to use the bad car, she spends so much money on her self and her hair and her cigeratts and my dad never bothers to spend a dime on himself. He always complains about being tight on money, and never buys us anything. but my stepmom goes and buys everthing using his money and he doesnt care. she is taking over our life and my dads she is so controlling, she thinks she owns everyone. My dad always seems so sad and depressed nowadays and it just seems like hes not happy anymore, and my stepmom never shows him any love and my dad is always so nice to her and she is always so miserable and rude to him, and i just dont know why he puts up with it. Me and my brother confront him all the time about it but he just ignores us. everyone in my house is always muserable becuase of my stepmom, she is the center of all our promblems. She goes straight to my dad and complains about everything me and my brother do and changes the story and my dad believes her. But my dad never complains about my stepsister or even gets in her business. My stepmom comlains about her work and every little thing to my dad and it just makes him more sad. My dad has to now take medication for stress and it seems as if my stepmom does not care that my dad is in bad condition. she continues to stress him out about the littlest things and she knows it gets to him but its really wierd that she doesn't like try to help him all she does is makes matters worse like im afraid something is going to h... Read More »
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