3 December 2008, 6:20 pm
I'm sick of dating. I've never been interested in any of the girls interested in me (and yes, that was usually after giving them a chance despite my initial impressions) and I have the feeling that things aren't going to change. I don't like how I look and since I can't change being tall, broad shouldered, and bald, I can figure I'm going to keep attracting the same girls over and over again....mostly desperate, needy types looking for a daddy figure and someone to dominate them in bed (tip for girls...it's a major turnoff if you tell a guy you like that he's big and bald because it reminds you of your father....while you're in bed). I really don't want a girl who needs to feel safe and secure in my arms, nor one who wants a boyfriend she thinks can protect her. I've decided to quit dating altogether. My question is, has anyone else done this? It's a big decision because I have to pretty much alter my priorities and my definition of happiness (in other words, get used to being alone), and I wonder if anyone else has done this and how they coped. I don't see any alternative: I can't change my height, obviously....even starving won't make my shoulders and chest less broad...I did thousands of dollars of hair transplants and ended up with nothing more than some thinning hair in front, so I'm forced to shave my head every few weeks and it looks utterly awful. Please don't tell me that I need to change my attitude; to me, that means that I need to take my own opinions and replace them with someone else's. I don't care that some girls like bigger guys or that some guys would want to be my size. I just want to know if anyone else has given up on dating and tried to find happiness in other ways. http://s385.photobucket.com/albums/oo296/curseofdolkite/ And yes, that is me with a tame opossum...a friend of mine does wildlife rehab and this was a pet a family had overfed.... Read More »
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